Give me Linen! Give me Silk!


Apparently the traditional gift for ones fourth wedding anniversary is Linen and Silk. Nick gave me a hammock and stand…maybe that counts. Next year is wood…that sounds exciting. Certainly beats leather, cotton and silk, which were the last three anniversaries. Does anyone actually follow those things?

Anyway.

May 10, 2008 I got the honor of marrying my best friend. I was stressed and exhausted, and boy did I have no idea what the future had in store for me. The last few years have been quite a surprise. They have held joys, surprises, losses, fears, and (whaddyaknow) a little kiddo. [Who is currently throwing a "I don't want to go to bed yet" tantrum.] Nick, I am so happy I am married to you. I’m glad you’ve put up with my moments, and I want to learn to be more like you. You are a good, loving, kind, patient man and I hope our son grows up to be just like you.

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Working on Getting My Summer Feet…


ImageThere is nothing like sunshine and free time to take any weekend to the next level of complete fabulousness. We have been busy the last couple weekends with weddings and family-get-togethers (Hood family celebration on the Orgeon coast, see the rocking’ family pics courtesy of Andy), so having free time this weekend was just that much sweeter. My parents took Hoodie for the weekend for some much needed QT with their grand baby, and so that Nick and I could get some time just to the two of us. We are coming up on our four-year wedding anniversary, so we enjoyed just hanging out with one another and remembering how much we like each other (yeah, we always love each other, but sometimes it’s easy to forget that you actually truly like the other person). It was so nice just staying up late playing cards, laughing, watching movies and doing puzzles together.

We also spent plenty of time in the yard finishing up the patio (I just realized I have no photos of that project, those will have to come later…), and working on the plants and vegetable garden. I’ve said this before, and I will say it again, I could look at my garden for HOURS, so be glad I only have a few pictures of plants to show you.Image

Nick built this trellis for us to get married under in his Grandparents backyard. We transported it to our current home when we bought it three years ago. I planted this Clematis last year; its nice to see some blooms!Image

The Sugar Snap Peas are loving the hoop houses!Image

I never knew what a potato plant looked like before this gardening adventure. Here are my russets (with a background of radishes).Image

Not sure what this tree is (some sort of decorative cherry tree?) but, as Hood would say, it’s “SOOOO NIIIIIICE!”Image

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Finally, Some Sunshine!


Last night, we enjoyed some quality family time playing in the basement with the super awesome (IKEA) cars Grandma J bought for Hoodie.

The crock pot stew I had prepped for dinner wasn’t quite ready when we got home, so we took off to the park and poked sticks in the river for an hour. I think springtime is the BEST time of year.

I have some pretty cute boys in my life!

How does your garden grow?


There’s nothing I love more during this time of year than to stand in my garden and look at all the little plants that are coming back to life. It makes me feel better knowing that maybe there might be sunshine again.

So I do not pretend to be an expert gardener…or even a gardener period. For the past two years I have had a pretty little 3′x3′ cold frame that Nick built for me out of scrap lumber and an old window we tore out of our kitchen wall. In that cold frame, I have been growing (or attempting to grow) strawberries, tomatoes, carrots, radishes, and lettuce. From those two years, I have only harvested a handful of strawberries, a few stubby carrots, and some bitter past-their-prime lettuce leaves.

Ever since I garden-sat for my neighbor, and Hood and I had our afternoon snacks in the garden, stuffing our faces with peas, carrots, raspberries and blueberries, I’ve wanted to put in a vegetable garden in our yard. This year, I set out to dedicate my entire spring break to finally making my dream happen.

On my birthday my parents surprised me by assembling and installing two raised beds for me. My dad slaved away all morning (in the snow) ripping up the grass, and putting the raised beds in place. In the early afternoon, I noticed a huge dump-truck coming up our driveway. My parents even got me dirt! Now I know this is not every girl’s dream of having 4 yards of manure-rich soil dumped in her yard, but I couldn’t have been happier. The next day Nick took me to Lowes and we bought the rest of the supplies I would need to fill the beds with goodies. Provided I don’t do anything too dumb, in a few months I might actually get to enjoy some of the fruits (or in this case vegetables) of my labors. Ah ha ha.

So for the last few days, I have been busy planting potatoes, carrots, radishes, onions, rosemary, sage, peas, beans, and nasturtiums. These have all gone in under the helpful protection of my hoop houses that act as small greenhouses so I can start my seeds earlier in the cool days of spring.

This is what a baby onion looks like. I planted white and red onions. Yum!

These are my “compost garlics”. I found them growing in our old compost heap, so I dug them up and transplanted them. We’ll see if anything exciting comes of it.

The string-grid system you can see are my guides for square-foot gardening, thanks to my Uncle Andy. Since I am using raised beds and thus do not have to allow for walking paths, I won’t be following the traditional row-based harding, but I am instead planting one square foot at a time, to aid in proper space-usage, as well as crop rotation.

Bean and pea trellises.

Check out my fancy way of connecting the plastic of the hoop-houses to the raised beds. I stapled the plastic to pieces of scrap wood heavy enough to weigh it down, but light enough I can still pull them off to access the beds when needed.

I sowed the first row of beans, peas and sugar-snap peas close to the edge (see labels), every month or so, I will sow another crop in a row a little further out. The strings are for all the vines to cling to. My hope is that I will be able to harvest peas and beans throughout the spring and summer. (These may be one of my favorites…)

In addition to working on the raised beds, I finally had the time to pay attention to our flower beds in the backyard. I planted hydrangeas, peonies, ferns and bleeding-hearts.

And no garden is complete without a compost pile. We raked up the remnants of our old heap and plopped it all into this bad boy. Looking forward to some lovely homemade awesomeness to add to my garden in, oh, about a year.

Life Update


So it has been half of forever since my last entry, mostly because I have been staying pretty busy and partly because when I am not busy, I am busy being a lazy bum.

The quarter is officially over, and I realized I haven’t shared any of my projects or hobbies on here lately. Thus the blog entry.

So this last quarter I took three classes, Typography, 3-D Foundations and German (second quarter).

In German, I am learning all about the perfect tenses (haben or sein as an auxiliary with the past participle following in the last position), simple past tenses of verbs, how to order food, tell location and occupation, and talk about the things that I want to do someday or want to become. I am really enjoying it. Languages don’t come easy to me, but memorizing does, so I just memorize the crap out of my vocabulary lists and try to fake the rest of it. For my class, we have to submit a video of ourselves verbally responding to questions on our computers (to check pronunciation and general awesomeness). The other day, Hood was sitting in my lap while I was recording my video. A few days after I submitted it, my teacher email me and told me he totally cracked up because whenever I would speak (in german), Hood would kinda do a double take and stare at me in confusion and awe. Poor kiddo, his life must be so confusing.

So for Typography we are learning about identifying type, as well as learning the power of type and associations/personalities that each typeface has. We are also learning about how to set type (rags, grids, weights and widths, and TYPE CRIMES). It’s only pretty awesome! I think Nick is going to go crazy one of these days when I lean over and whisper “The closing credits of The Amazing Race are set in Bank Gothic” or when I say “The Skyline Tower in Bellevue uses Verdana in their signs, which is pretty much a type crime because Verdana was created solely for use at small point sizes on screen.” Yeah, I guess I am that kid now.

My final project for Typography was to pick a line from a song and create the letterforms of the song in such a way that they emulate the meaning of the song, or portray the emotion/meaning of the song. I did the Mommy thang and picked “You’ve got a friend in me”

My 3 Dimensional Foundations course was focused primarily on teaching us how to deconstruct the 2-D plane to create a 3-D form. We did a lot of origami-based projects early on in the quarter and ended by creating 3-D objects that had an interaction counterpart. We had the option of redesigning a parking meter or a pill bottle. My partner, Carli and I chose to redesign a parking meter. There is a 20 page process book full of studies, sketches, and user interface screen shots and explanations to explain how we led up to this point. Rather than showing everything, I figure I will leave you with the final images of our meter. There is a lot of thought that went into just about every aspect of it. If you care, I am sure I could talk for hours about how we got to this point.

Now I am enjoying a week and a half off. I am cleaning the house, and praying for nice not rainy weather next week so I can put in the raised beds in my garden that I have been looking forward to all winter.

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I had a dream too…


(blurry, but I couldn’t help myself. Look at this kid!)

I dreamt that the snow would finally come this winter. How appropriate that on this beautiful Martin Luther King Jr. Day that it would  finally come true! AND, to put the cherry on top of my ice cream sundae, I have the day off of school!

I have some studying still to do (für meine Deutsch Prüfung morgen), so Hoodie got to go play with his friends at daycare this morning. Before we piled into the car, we spent a little time scampering about the yard. Snow is still relatively new to the kiddo, so he had a fair amount of tumbles and slips, but he LOVED it. I don’t know what he enjoyed more, the snow or running around with the dog. He has taken to calling his puppy like Mommy and Daddy do, so you can often hear him calling out “Seeeeej! Seeeeej!” followed by  an imitation whistle (making his lips into an “o” and then squealing through his pursed lips).

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Family Date Night Out (Appreciating Customer Service Jobs)


Last night, Nick had a fun idea that we go out for ice cream after dinner. Not exactly helping the whole “eat better” resolution thing, but, hey, it’s been a whole week, right? So we decided to swing by the old Dairy Queen and hit up Redbox on the way home to rent a family flick.

Now I want to premise this. I may have a quick temper, but I usually save that for at home with the people I love (lucky them), and I don’t normally yell/get angry with strangers. This was typically frowned on as I was growing up, in case you start to question the parenting I had as a child. Even Jesus got mad sometimes too.

Anyway, we go into this Dairy Queen and I immediately noticed an older couple was ordering with the cashier. The older man was speaking loudly, and I just wrote it off as him being geezerly (he’s old, give him a break). Then loud gave way to rude. Apparently DQ was having some sort of cheeseburger-palooza and had a poster of 3 different cheeseburgers for people to choose from. The man was telling the girl at the counter that he wanted “that one” gesticulating angrily at the poster across the room and was getting furious that she was trying to specify which of the three burgers he wanted.

“I want the damn cheeseburger!” he said, “Isn’t that a [insert more expletives here] cheeseburger?!” He made eye contact with me as I stared at him, aghast (while holding my son), and he made this face that said “Aren’t these people the WORST?!” and I tried to make my face say something back like, “No, you are” (but I don’t think my face bends that way).

The conversation went on as he berated the girl. The man’s wife, being sugar sweet in an attempt to make up for the mistake of bringing her husband out in public, started complimenting me on how adorable my son was and how we probably always were told that. I thanked her and engaged in a distracted conversation with her about the cut on his eyebrow and how he’s like a tank and likes to crash into things. I couldn’t stop listening to the altercation that was happening in front of us.

I heard the man yelling at the girl that she was stupid and didn’t understand anything (all she was trying to say was “Will there be anything else?”), when they were finally though, he turned to me and said (loudly enough for the whole store to hear him), “[Expletives], You’d think they could hire someone that wasn’t an idiot and could actually understand English!” (she was Asian and spoke perfectly fine english).

I couldn’t stand it anymore. I told him that she was doing a fabulous job in that she wasn’t yelling at him for being such a horrible [something I probably shouldn't have said and I hope does not reflect poorly on my parents]. And I kept on saying more and more about how she was just doing her job and he was being a complete ass-hole. He responded to me in some way (I was so mad I don’t even remember it anymore), but it was enough to make me turn and tell Nick and Hood that we would wait outside until that horrible man was no longer in the restaurant to make it extremely clear that we wanted no part of him.

Hood was pretty confused and I think I might have embarrassed Nick, but we stood out in the cold while we waited for the couple to get their food. I apologized to Nick for getting so worked up. It makes me so upset when customers abuse people in the customer-service industry. Being a barista, I have dealt with my fair share of horrible people like that, and it was nice to get to stand up for someone else for a change and let the customer know what the employee was probably thinking but couldn’t say (if she wanted to keep her job).

When the couple finally came out, we were of course standing right next to their car, the wife held the door open for us as we re-entered and said something very cheerily like, “Ooh! It’s chilly out here! I hope you guys have a nice day!” (As an aside, I don’t know why she didn’t tell her husband to be nicer or something. Nick said that its probably a generational thing and women didn’t correct their husbands then. I try to be respectful to Nick, but I am pretty sure if he ever acted like that to anyone-no danger in that happening anytime soon-he would have to bear the brunt of my wrath).

When we went inside, the store manager was at the register, and I saw the previous cashier in the back washing dishes and sobbing. I apologized to the manager FOR the man, telling her that I am sorry there are people like that in the world, and that I appreciated that the girl was so kind to him. I wish I could have done more, but I was just still so upset, I couldn’t find any words.

Family night did eventually calm down and, you’d be proud of me, I didn’t yell at any more people for the whole rest of the day!

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The Remodel-Phase 3


So the third and final (for now) phase of the remodel is officially complete. It’s actually been done for several months now, but we have been busy enjoying the space too much to really tell anyone about it. (That and a little bit of school and work to fill out our days.)

So without further ado, here’s some fun before and after pics. The before shots are the ones from the John L. Scott website when we bought our house 2 years ago. Some of the orientations are a little confusing between the before and after pictures because the floor plan has changed so drastically. (We have moved every single interior wall.)

Here goes!

(The real-estate photographer was a little more talented than me, so hopefully it won’t look like we made the house worse.)

The exterior of the house pretty much remained the same.

Kitchen Before:

And After:

Dining Room Before:“Dining Room” After. (Now half the old dining room is Hoodie’s room and the other half is the sitting area in the kitchen.

Living Room Before:

Living Room After:

Master Bathroom Before:

And the bathroom after:

Office Before:

Studio After:

The house didn’t have a laundry room before (it used to be a closet off of a hallway), so we added one. It’s amazing the difference that makes.

I’m pretty sure the cats don’t really care about all of the changes.

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Morning Walk


I want to premise this with a simple fact: I hate hate Spiders. Don’t tell the Buddhist Monks, but we might have regularly scheduled visits with a certain “Orkin” Gentleman. Spiders in my house…you guys are dead. But build a pretty web in my yard, add some dew, and I might just take a picture of you. (Ha! That rhymed.)

This morning was the first in a few weeks where I did not have to go to work or some other morning engagement. Part of that is due to the fact that yesterday was my last day at my job (more on that later). We woke up slowly and then made some coffee. I was feeling very hangover-y this morning, probably due to last nights NyQuil (thank you, daycare germs), so it took me longer than normal to clear the mental cobwebs. Hood wanted to walk the dog, so we decided to take a short jaunt down the foggy street with the woofie in tow.

We stopped and admired all the dew-laden spider webs that decorated our yard. There was one web that was dangling from our crab-apple tree. It looked like the spider, instead of attaching one of the web anchor points to the ground, used a small rock as a mid-air anchor to keep the web steady. I have never seen anything like it before. It is so beautiful to see the creations that animals come up with. I don’t think I give spiders enough credit. They are pretty talented and smart (albeit very scary looking) little builders.


It is times like this that I want to treasure for the rest of my life. Quiet, happy, calm moments with my beautiful family enjoying our home and each other (and coffee too!). We live in the country-ish, so our surrounding neighbors have horses, cows, chickens and a healthy smattering of dogs. I realized that this is the perfect amount of “farm” for me. I want to enjoy other people’s animals without the expense or bother of having to take care of them. We went and visited the crazy lady’s** horse, Lady Bug. Hood was thrilled that the big doggie was so interested in him. He was also pretty excited that he got to hold Sage’s leash this time. Sage was a model puppy too, he was very calm, gentle and patient with his little boy as Hood dragged him around the neighborhood.

**So, I try not to give the name “Crazy Lady” to just anybody. Love her, but she is literally crazy. Maybe there is a more politically correct term for crazy that I should be using. My studio has a view of her horse pasture. She doesn’t live in our neighborhood, but she rents the pasture out from one of our neighbors. She loves her horse. She will spend hours hand clipping grass from up and down our road to bring to Lady Bug as a snack. This lady will regularly come up to our back door (why bother with the front door, when the back door is so much more awesome!) at 10:00pm or later asking if she can borrow random things like a grass-seed spreader or to ask us if we actually live in our house.

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Big Sisters = Super Great


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You know those days where you are just going along, minding your own business and someone says something completely out of the blue that blows you away and makes you feel SUPER duper loved? Yeah, my sister just did that to me.

Here’s what she emailed me:

Hi Ams,

I was looking through some old word documents and found this…I don’t know if I ever sent it to you, but here it is now.

I love you tons!

NA

God certainly knew what he was doing that March day eighteen years ago when my little sister was first carried into my life…my funny, flamboyant, beautiful little sister…my heart’s twin.

I don’t know if it was because we didn’t watch TV, or maybe we just had very active imaginations, but we played so many made up games together. We just played together period! Whether it be with people made out of popsicle sticks, or homemade yarn dolls, or in an imaginary town called Red Bell, or playing spy and sneaking around the neighborhood writing down car license plates, or making codes, playing potions (usually made of soap) and ‘treating’ the plants, playing hide and seek with the dog, or granny, messy babies, the leg game ,or pretending to be drunk (which mostly consisted of loudly slurping martinellis apple cider out of wine glasses…neither of us ever having actually seen a drunk person at the time) we always had fun and laughed a lot. My little sister, who succeedes, who broke her wrist and determined to play sports again, my sister who paints and the scenery comes alive, my sister who finds humor in the little things and if the situation isn’t funny, she makes it so

And now…now that little sister is off at a university of her own. The little sister, with whom every new idea began with ‘let’s pretend that…’ is now making new friends and moving into a world that is 300 miles from my own. So, I will send her off with love, and high hopes, and part of my heart.

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